Ways you will definitely know he loves you?

Ways you will definitely know he loves you?

Loves you, for who you are and not only your hourglass figure or cheerleader skirts or amazeball sense of style/fashion or your skinny fucking waist or smoothness of your skin or your perfect brows or your 5 inch heels. Well you should pretty much get the gist by now.

I have to admit tho, im not really a good lover in fact i think im a horrible one really (Don’t worry my boyfriend is well aware of this situation (unfortunately) and has been warned before hand) Don’t have to pity him.

Luckily luck is on my side in this two player game.(I put further emphasize on TWO) I pretty much receive more then i give (trying to make a change slowly but surely) Amazingly he is still here for me despite all the squabbles and really i can be quite a handful most of the time. (Which makes me love him all the more)

You’ll know he loves you
If he remembers by heart (Sincerely of course) all your little details. From the hint of your likes/dislikes, your itinerary and plans, your cell number, your birthdate, your first kiss, your favourite songs, favourite place, your favourite number, favourite disney princess, even your best friends names and where they come from without even having to meet them yet! (I think my boyfriend has a hard disc installed somewhere im sure because i can’t even remember his cell number! Boo me go ahead. Im sorry but i have the memory of a goldfish)

You’ll know he loves you 
If you both don’t have to rely on out-sourcing entertainment to fill your time (Strictly includes movies, shopping, eating) Well eating is a necessity (a hobby for me) so that’s an exception. You can be utterly disgusting like me (i burp out loud alot i am sorry i am a disgrace to the female community) and he still loves you just the way you are. You can want to just sit and talk and laugh and even take a nap and he wouldn’t even care or love you any more less. Who needs $$$ to have fun with the one you love anyway?

You’ll know he loves you
If he makes sacrifices no matter big or small. Small sacrifices includes giving you his fries or walking around town with lip stain on his face (well i like to do this secretly tho hehe) talking to you on the phone till youre really sleepy (sacrificing sleep in this case for me is pretty much a big sacrifice so be thankful ladies) or sending you home to your doorstep because bringing and asking you out was his responsibility so sacrificing his time and effort to send you home is pretty much a must (Dont question me and my at-times-feminist thinking)
Big sacrifices like waking up when youre up for morning shift at work just to accompany you and make sure you’re not alone because you hate mornings as much as i do. (i despise them) Willing to take a trip down to your work place in the middle of the night to just fetch you home?

You’ll know he loves you
If he cares about you. Even a simple question like how did your day go? Is instantly a relief. The tricky part here is to tell whether he is genuinely interested of course. If he is then, lucky you. If he cares he will want to know what happened to you, how did your day go, what did you have for lunch, who you went out with, what pissed you off at work and most importantly after pouring them all out, he’s there to make you better. (My boyfriend is guilty of this)


You’ll know he loves you
If he has no expectations for you or for the relationship as a whole. He accepts you for who you are. Who you set out to be and supports you till the very end. He breathes in your flaws and exhales your imperfections but still loves them as they are because all of it defines you. He doesn’t try to change you.The only expectation he should have on the relationship is for it to last, eternity.

Well i do know he loves me pretty damn much and i can never ask for another.
In fact he is actually guilty for all of the above and i would like to take this opportunity to thank him for teaching and making me be a better lover a better friend and a better daughter.

For the rest of you never give up, good luck and all the best
T.J xx

Photo on 2013-09-20 at 16.59 #3